Recent events have taught me that you can't please everyone. No matter what you do someone will get upset or disagree with the decision you make. I'm in a situation where I am choosing not to choose any sides. Call me a coward but at this point of time, with the knowledge I have, that to me is the best decision I could make. But somehow there are these particular group of people who are upset that I didn't choose sides. So I am choosing to ignore them. Even if there are family.